I am not really sure that you will find Ubuntu any more user friendly than
XandrOS. XandrOS
is one of those "about as close to WinDoze as you can get out of the box"
distros of
Linux that you are going to find. Ubunutu is going to require you to do a
bit more configuring and installing of apps to get it close to XandrOS. I
think you should stick with it a little longer and
do some Google searching to find yourself some manuals or books on the
subject.